What is a soulmate? From my point of view, a soulmate is a person who fits perfectly with you, that, in some way, it completes you. Frankly, even though I consider myself a romantic person, I don’t really believe in soulmates. Each person is a world, with its characteristics and its way of being. Therefore, I think it’s almost impossible to find “the perfect one”. But don’t consider it a pessimistic point of view; for me, it’s better to find a person who you can share your life with, a person who loves you back, who cares about you and, obviously, a person with imperfections. For me, it’s not about spending your time finding your other half (if it exists), it’s about loving someone so much that their faults will be converted into their virtues. You know, just loving someone, not caring about if he or she is your soulmate or not. If you really love them, they will be perfect for you (maybe even more perfect than you actual “soulmate”!).
Now that I have given my point of view about the existence of soulmates, I find it difficult to describe my soulmate without contradicting myself. Therefore, I would say that, for me, my “soulmate” has to be someone that loves me, that cares about me and that accepts me the way I am. About the rest of things I can’t say anything, because I'm not looking a tall guy, with blue eyes and a perfect smile, who loves exactly the same things as I do, for example. I mean, I’m not looking for a prototype of guy, because it will be difficult to find, and if I found one with these physical characteristics, maybe then I would not like their personality.
On the other hand, talking about personality, maybe I have some requisites, but of course they are not very important. For example, I like people who make me laugh, who are loyal and trustworthy. There are other things less important like spontaneity: I like spontaneous and happy people. But, as I said before, I don’t have a prototype of physical appearance nor personality.
Therefore, in conclusion, I’m not able to describe my soulmate, because I don’t believe in one, even though I like some kind of people, like loyal and funny people.
Now that I have given my point of view about the existence of soulmates, I find it difficult to describe my soulmate without contradicting myself. Therefore, I would say that, for me, my “soulmate” has to be someone that loves me, that cares about me and that accepts me the way I am. About the rest of things I can’t say anything, because I'm not looking a tall guy, with blue eyes and a perfect smile, who loves exactly the same things as I do, for example. I mean, I’m not looking for a prototype of guy, because it will be difficult to find, and if I found one with these physical characteristics, maybe then I would not like their personality. 
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