The last 25th of November was the international day against gender violence. Did you know that 1 in 3 women worldwide have experienced physical or sexual violence, mostly by an intimate partner? I think this is horrible. 1 in 3 women are a lot of women! And the worst of all is that, in the cases of violence by an intimate partner, most of them don’t complain or go to the police to report it. Because they can’t see it, they love their partners and tolerate this; or, also, because they are afraid of it and, somehow, they decide not to tell anybody. Anyways, they suffer. They are living in a constant nightmare.
But violence can be stopped. It can be difficult, because this is something that is in men’s or women’s head (because there is also gender violence where women abuse men), and it’s very difficult to change someone’s opinion or beliefs. It’s not like a virus that can be cured by medications or vaccines. But it can be prevented. I don’t know exactly how, and I know that is something that can’t disappear all of the sudden. It needs time but, step by step, maybe within some years (I hope not too much) gender violence will disappear (or almost).
Personally, I don’t know why this terrible thing happens so much. I think one of the reasons it’s because these men (focusing on gender violence against women) think that they are superior to women. They are based on history, when in most of cultures women were considered much inferior than men. And, unfortunately, there are remains of this way of thinking nowadays. Gender violence against women is an example. So, these men think that their wife, partner, mother or daughter is and object. Well, it’s THEIR object, and they can do whatever they want with her. They think that women have to obey to man. And, worst of all (as I said before) is that most of the women didn’t complain or go to the police to report it. In these cases, I think it’s very important for them to have a friend or someone to talk with them about this because friends or family can help a lot. Now, there are a lot of campaigns against gender violence, helping women to report their problems. This is the case of my country, Spain, but there are a lot of countries (mostly in Africa or in South America) that don’t do these things, so it’s more difficult for women to solve their problem.
I think the worst of all is that a lot of the cases of gender violence end up with woman’s death. I can’t understand why they end up killing their partner and why there are so many cases. This is repugnant and needs to stop.
P.S. In this post, I focused on gender violence against women, because it’s what happens more. Unfortunately, this happens also against men and we don’t have to forget that.